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card updated Oct 1, 2026 · 13 clips parsed · following 29 · 4,700,000 likes total

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Engagement7.32%normal range

Account summary

@drjondabach has 182,200 followers and 1,236 videos. Across the 13 parsed clips the average is 243,530 views and 14,352 likes. Engagement to views is 7.32%, which is normal range for TikTok. On the newer half of the feed the response is falling (−0.48 pp). Posts roughly 0.4 times a week. An average clip reaches 134% of the follower count.

Followers

182.2K

+7.9K in period

Engagement

7.32%

−0.48 pp newer half

Average views

243.5K

median 1.5K

Likes per clip

14.4K

388 comments avg

Shares / saves

3.1K / 5.3K

2.16% of viewers save

Posting rate

0.4 / wk

reach 134% of followers

Latest clips

13 collected

You said "I'm sad." He said "You'll be okay." He probably thinks he's — @drjondabach

3.5K1:37You said "I'm sad." He said "You'll be okay." He probably thinks he's helping. But that's not what you were looking for.240162642

Ten minutes. That's all you asked for. Ten minutes of honest conversat — @drjondabach

1.1K1:23Ten minutes. That's all you asked for. Ten minutes of honest conversation. And somehow that feels like an Olympic event 563118

If this resonates with you, I want you to know something: You’re not c — @drjondabach

1.5K1:09If this resonates with you, I want you to know something: You’re not crazy. You’re not asking for too much. Wanting emot774610

1.1K1:12If this resonates with you, I want you to know something: You’re not crazy. You’re not asking for too much. Wanting emot701417

1.1K1:13If this resonates with you, I want you to know something: You’re not crazy. You’re not asking for too much. Wanting emot530514

9751:24If this resonates with you, I want you to know something: You’re not crazy. You’re not asking for too much. Wanting emot640629

1.4K1:22If this resonates with you, I want you to know something: You’re not crazy. You’re not asking for too much. Wanting emot9112040

1.2K1:07If this resonates with you, I want you to know something: You’re not crazy. You’re not asking for too much. Wanting emot903325

1.5K1:23If this resonates with you, I want you to know something: You’re not crazy. You’re not asking for too much. Wanting emot860627

6.8K1:17If this resonates with you, I want you to know something: You’re not crazy. You’re not asking for too much. Wanting emot4501535176

538.8K1:00If this resonates with you, I want you to know something: You're not crazy. You're not asking for too much. Wanting emot45.8K1K11.2K9.2K

606.9K1:14If this resonates with you, I want you to know something: You're not crazy. You're not asking for too much. Wanting emot28K1.7K7.2K12.4K

This is what a dismissive avoidant looks like inside a long-term relat — @drjondabach

2M1:58This is what a dismissive avoidant looks like inside a long-term relationship or marriage. They’re not cruel. They’re no111.5K2.2K21.6K46.5K

Engagement per clip

13 parsed clips · newest on the right · click a bar to open the clip peak: 10.8% ER

Feb 8Sep 3Sep 5

Date	Views	Likes	Comments	Shares	Saves	ER
Sep 5, 2026	3,485	240	16	26	42	8.09%
Sep 4, 2026	1,136	56	3	1	18	5.28%
Sep 4, 2026	1,496	77	4	6	10	5.82%
Sep 3, 2026	1,085	70	1	4	17	6.91%
Sep 3, 2026	1,067	53	0	5	14	5.44%
Sep 3, 2026	975	64	0	6	29	7.18%
Sep 3, 2026	1,438	91	1	20	40	7.79%
Sep 2, 2026	1,221	90	3	3	25	7.86%
Sep 2, 2026	1,512	86	0	6	27	6.08%
Sep 2, 2026	6,775	450	15	35	176	7.38%
Jul 31, 2026	538,800	45,800	1,036	11,200	9,174	10.77%
Jul 15, 2026	606,900	28,000	1,723	7,160	12,384	6.08%
Feb 8, 2026	2,000,000	111,500	2,244	21,600	46,494	6.77%