@desireelc5Desiree

18+ ✔️Hot-mess Mom [Truth. laughs. positivity] ✨My trauma doesn’t define me✨💪🏻

card updated Sep 11, 2026 · 12 clips parsed · following 4,816 · 4,300,000 likes total

Engagement13.7%above average

Account summary

@desireelc5 has 195,200 followers and 882 videos. Across the 12 parsed clips the average is 304,268 views and 36,602 likes. Engagement to views is 13.7%, which is above average for TikTok. On the newer half of the feed the response is falling (−2.09 pp). Posts roughly 0.4 times a week. An average clip reaches 156% of the follower count.

Followers

195.2K

+0 in period

Engagement

13.7%

−2.09 pp newer half

Average views

304.3K

median 14.2K

Likes per clip

36.6K

612 comments avg

Shares / saves

4.5K / 1.6K

0.51% of viewers save

Posting rate

0.4 / wk

reach 156% of followers

Latest clips

12 collected

If your a parent who’s had enough of the sh!t today let’s be friends. — @desireelc5

43.3K0:19If your a parent who’s had enough of the sh!t today let’s be friends. 😂 #momsoftiktok #parentsoftiktok #parenthood #momh5.4K277272105

Happy Monday fam. Set those Boundaries and let the healing do it’s thi — @desireelc5

24.5K0:06Happy Monday fam. Set those Boundaries and let the healing do it’s thing #toxicfamily #boundaries #selfcare #narcfamily 1.9K6076166

Sending all the good vibes and energy to whoever needs this, if your m — @desireelc5

7.7K0:15Sending all the good vibes and energy to whoever needs this, if your meant to see it you will. ❤️ #wereinthistogether #m64743725

Sorry not sorry….#boundaries #toxicfamily #narcfamily #startariot #mom — @desireelc5

14.6K0:12Sorry not sorry….#boundaries #toxicfamily #narcfamily #startariot #momsoftiktok #boundariesarehealthy #toxicfriends #nar87925738

Signed a person who is sick of peoples sh!t 👍🏻#boundaries #relatable # — @desireelc5

14K0:19Signed a person who is sick of peoples sh!t 👍🏻#boundaries #relatable #toxicfamily #narsissistsurvivor #goodpeoplegethurt1.8K5898129

Happy Mother’s Day weekend to all you badass mamas! Enjoy your day! Yo — @desireelc5

12.2K0:27Happy Mother’s Day weekend to all you badass mamas! Enjoy your day! You deserve it. ❤️#mother #momsoftiktok #momsover30 1.8K1613519

Family isn’t a free pass for abuse & 💩 behavior.. Toxic is toxic #toxi — @desireelc5

14.4K0:06Family isn’t a free pass for abuse & 💩 behavior.. Toxic is toxic #toxicfamily #narcfamily #boundaries #toxicfamilymember1K503449

Turning my pain in to power ❤️ #healingjourney #healingquotes #mytraum — @desireelc5

8.4K0:14Turning my pain in to power ❤️ #healingjourney #healingquotes #mytraumadoesntdefineme #happinessafterabusiverelationship864462467

Going in to spring & summer leaving nobody who needs support behind. I — @desireelc5

7.1K0:15Going in to spring & summer leaving nobody who needs support behind. I see you. ❤️ #tiktoksisters #friends #toxicfamily693781225

If your angry over me setting healthy boundaries for myself you’re one — @desireelc5

5K0:08If your angry over me setting healthy boundaries for myself you’re one of the reasons i need them. #healthyboundaries #b29171627

Let’s walk the plank together 😂 #motherhood #momsoftiktok #momlife #mo — @desireelc5

1.2M0:15Let’s walk the plank together 😂 #motherhood #momsoftiktok #momlife #momswhoswear #hotmessmama #momsquad #momsunite94.9K1.4K12.6K903

It keeps going and going unless you break that cycle. #toxicfamily #be — @desireelc5

2.3M0:17It keeps going and going unless you break that cycle. #toxicfamily #bethechange #narctok #traumahumor #dysfunctionalfami329K5.2K40.5K17.1K

Engagement per clip

12 parsed clips · newest on the right · click a bar to open the clip peak: 16.4% ER

Oct 27May 7Jun 13

Date	Views	Likes	Comments	Shares	Saves	ER
Jun 13, 2022	43,300	5,363	277	272	105	13.65%
Jun 13, 2022	24,500	1,936	60	76	166	8.46%
Jun 1, 2022	7,708	647	43	7	25	9.04%
May 13, 2022	14,600	879	25	7	38	6.24%
May 9, 2022	14,000	1,837	58	98	129	14.24%
May 7, 2022	12,200	1,805	161	35	19	16.40%
Apr 28, 2022	14,400	1,003	50	34	49	7.55%
Apr 28, 2022	8,391	864	46	24	67	11.13%
Apr 28, 2022	7,096	693	78	12	25	11.03%
Apr 27, 2022	5,015	291	7	16	27	6.26%
Jan 13, 2022	1,200,000	94,900	1,371	12,600	903	9.07%
Oct 27, 2021	2,300,000	329,000	5,164	40,500	17,134	16.29%