@datingbyblaineDating Coach • Blaine Anderson

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card updated Oct 19, 2026 · 13 clips parsed · following 187 · 3,700,000 likes total

Engagement2.64%below typical

Account summary

@datingbyblaine has 250,000 followers and 1,107 videos. Across the 13 parsed clips the average is 370,550 views and 9,329 likes. Engagement to views is 2.64%, which is below typical for TikTok. On the newer half of the feed the response is falling (−1.2 pp). Posts roughly 0.1 times a week. An average clip reaches 148% of the follower count.

Followers

250K

−400 in period

Engagement

2.64%

−1.2 pp newer half

Average views

370.6K

median 17.5K

Likes per clip

9.3K

189 comments avg

Shares / saves

277 / 1.7K

0.46% of viewers save

Posting rate

0.1 / wk

reach 148% of followers

Latest clips

13 collected

Confidence is everything. If you have it, you’re a weapon. #dating #da — @datingbyblaine

7.3K0:26Confidence is everything. If you have it, you’re a weapon. #dating #datingcoach 2407157

She is just another human, so act like it! The worst thing that’s goin — @datingbyblaine

10.5K0:29She is just another human, so act like it! The worst thing that’s going to happen is that you hear a no. Literally, who 38918896

She’s likely not interested, not playing hard to get. But if she is, s — @datingbyblaine

2.4K0:10She’s likely not interested, not playing hard to get. But if she is, she can take her games elsewhere. #dating #datingt1310422

“You know what I was thinking…” is also a banger. #d#datingd#datingcoa — @datingbyblaine

10.3K0:12“You know what I was thinking…” is also a banger. #d#datingd#datingcoachtexting 308118127

Acting like a 13 yr old boy who’s never seen 🍎🍎 is not hot. Just so we — @datingbyblaine

11.1K0:15Acting like a 13 yr old boy who’s never seen 🍎🍎 is not hot. Just so we’re clear ;) #dating #datingcoach 3245397

Reach out if you want to learn the 5 simple steps to meet women IRL an — @datingbyblaine

203.1K0:18Reach out if you want to learn the 5 simple steps to meet women IRL and create romantic chemistry without being awkward 2K14835357

5. He carries immense pressure to provide and succeed… You aren’t the — @datingbyblaine

4.4K0:185. He carries immense pressure to provide and succeed… You aren’t the only one who feels this way sometimes, and I see y1884126

Same goes for high value men ;) #matchmaking #dating — @datingbyblaine

85.8K0:22Same goes for high value men ;) #matchmaking #dating2.5K54406643

Nothingnhitter than a man who notices the things beyond the surface 🥵 — @datingbyblaine

17.5K0:17Nothingnhitter than a man who notices the things beyond the surface 🥵4553111109

Who’s landed a date after approaching a woman like this? 👇 #dating #da — @datingbyblaine

164.7K0:14Who’s landed a date after approaching a woman like this? 👇 #dating #datingcoach 3.3K277103900

Remember, getting dates is a numbers game, so don’t be discouraged if — @datingbyblaine

1.4M0:21Remember, getting dates is a numbers game, so don’t be discouraged if every approach doesn’t land you one. That is part 38.2K9561.2K6.3K

Life hack: "busy" is usually code for "not interested." Don't expect a — @datingbyblaine

1.7M0:14Life hack: "busy" is usually code for "not interested." Don't expect a woman who tells you she's busy to follow up. Onwa52.2K5421K9.3K

If you see two or more signs, ask her out! If you’re already on a date — @datingbyblaine

1.2M0:28If you see two or more signs, ask her out! If you’re already on a date, it might mean it’s time to make a move 😘 #datin21K4028294.2K

Engagement per clip

13 parsed clips · newest on the right · click a bar to open the clip peak: 5.6% ER

Jul 25Aug 20Sep 4

Date	Views	Likes	Comments	Shares	Saves	ER
Sep 4, 2026	7,305	240	7	1	57	3.39%
Sep 2, 2026	10,500	389	18	8	96	3.95%
Aug 31, 2026	2,416	131	0	4	22	5.59%
Aug 28, 2026	10,300	308	11	8	127	3.17%
Aug 25, 2026	11,100	324	5	3	97	2.99%
Aug 22, 2026	203,100	2,031	148	35	357	1.09%
Aug 20, 2026	4,433	188	4	1	26	4.35%
Aug 18, 2026	85,800	2,460	54	406	643	3.40%
Aug 14, 2026	17,500	455	31	11	109	2.84%
Aug 12, 2026	164,700	3,349	277	103	900	2.26%
Nov 14, 2024	1,400,000	38,200	956	1,181	6,312	2.88%
Sep 12, 2023	1,700,000	52,200	542	1,006	9,309	3.16%
Jul 25, 2023	1,200,000	21,000	402	829	4,157	1.85%