@colezesigerCole Zesiger

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card updated Oct 10, 2026 · 22 clips parsed · following 686 · 9,200,000 likes total

Engagement4.01%normal range

Account summary

@colezesiger has 380,000 followers and 1,912 videos. Across the 22 parsed clips the average is 31,472 views and 1,195 likes. Engagement to views is 4.01%, which is normal range for TikTok. On the newer half of the feed the response is rising (+4.52 pp). Posts roughly 0.1 times a week. An average clip reaches 8% of the follower count.

Followers

380K

+600 in period

Engagement

4.01%

+4.52 pp newer half

Average views

31.5K

median 9K

Likes per clip

1.2K

34 comments avg

Shares / saves

33 / 217

0.69% of viewers save

Posting rate

0.1 / wk

reach 8% of followers

Latest clips

22 collected

Your brain’s job is to keep you alive and it views missing a partner l — @colezesiger

1.6KYour brain’s job is to keep you alive and it views missing a partner like death.🧠 So it will feed you any lie possible t490015

After she left I didn’t care about doing anything for myself… So at fi — @colezesiger

9260:38After she left I didn’t care about doing anything for myself… So at first, I did it all to get her back. But the change39403

1️⃣ If everything else is also stressful in life… 😞 Ex: family issues, — @colezesiger

4.9K1:071️⃣ If everything else is also stressful in life… 😞 Ex: family issues, problems at work or with friends, getting older a331916124

Sometimes what we are chasing after a breakup is because we have an un — @colezesiger

8.1K0:49Sometimes what we are chasing after a breakup is because we have an unmet need… Our brains tell us the ONLY thing that c679413392

Your brain is not completely on your side while you’re experiencing he — @colezesiger

76.7KYour brain is not completely on your side while you’re experiencing heartbreak… It can feed you lies to get you to chase2.1K16971.2K

Link in bio for one on one help! — @colezesiger

4K14:08Link in bio for one on one help!1146359

2.1K1:08Follow for part 2!900434

As you learn to think differently after your breakup, you will have a — @colezesiger

9.9KAs you learn to think differently after your breakup, you will have a different experience. The only way to think diffe2712567

I remember being so sure that I would never love someone like that aga — @colezesiger

97.5K0:36I remember being so sure that I would never love someone like that again… I couldn’t picture anyone else. When I thought10.6K1493001.1K

It’s super common for exes to ask to stay friends after leaving the re — @colezesiger

4.5K0:59It’s super common for exes to ask to stay friends after leaving the relationship. Why do they do this? The loss is real 1841294

If you need one on one help through your breakup click here link in my — @colezesiger

1.4K7:33If you need one on one help through your breakup click here link in my bio!863135

There’s a lot of rules and lies around the internet when it comes to h — @colezesiger

10.7KThere’s a lot of rules and lies around the internet when it comes to heartbreak. The biggest one for me here is this: S1830348

I wrote this book to help you with questions like: “Should I break no — @colezesiger

4881:07I wrote this book to help you with questions like: “Should I break no contact?” “Why was my ex so cold?” “Do they think 13002

No contact is hard for both people at the beginning. As you stick to i — @colezesiger

26.5K0:37No contact is hard for both people at the beginning. As you stick to it, and start building the other areas of your lif891542152

It’s so weird to me how we treat ourselves atter heartbreak. During th — @colezesiger

13.1KIt’s so weird to me how we treat ourselves atter heartbreak. During the relationship, you’re supposed to be loyal and co3784691

It’s so weird looking back how something I thought would destroy my en — @colezesiger

1.7K0:55It’s so weird looking back how something I thought would destroy my entire life gave me something so much better. In rea34125

Breakups are EXTREMELY disorienting. Hopefully this gives you some ide — @colezesiger

34.2KBreakups are EXTREMELY disorienting. Hopefully this gives you some idea of what may be going on. Once you have it, red304327185

Being friends with your ex when you really want more is EXTREMELY temp — @colezesiger

13.1KBeing friends with your ex when you really want more is EXTREMELY tempting. It makes sense. You still get to see them.1021656

Secure attachment doesn’t mean you don’t feel anxiety after a breakup. — @colezesiger

1.9K0:20Secure attachment doesn’t mean you don’t feel anxiety after a breakup. It means you feel safe enough in yourself and in920119

It’s the weirdest feeling ever to feel like you’re dying and then see — @colezesiger

31.5KIt’s the weirdest feeling ever to feel like you’re dying and then see your ex on social media doing completely fine. It342219168

Link in bio to learn more! #ex #breakup #fyp #relationship — @colezesiger

95.1K0:38Link in bio to learn more! #ex #breakup #fyp #relationship 2.2K11161354

Nice to meet you too! This is my introduction video. I am making these — @colezesiger

252.4K0:54Nice to meet you too! This is my introduction video. I am making these videos to try and help as many people as I learn 7.3K437110542

Engagement per clip

22 parsed clips · newest on the right · click a bar to open the clip peak: 11.3% ER

May 25Sep 22Oct 29

Date	Views	Likes	Comments	Shares	Saves	ER
Oct 29, 2026	1,617	49	0	0	15	3.03%
Oct 28, 2026	926	39	4	0	3	4.64%
Oct 26, 2026	4,883	331	9	16	124	7.29%
Oct 23, 2026	8,143	679	4	13	392	8.55%
Oct 21, 2026	76,700	2,056	16	97	1,222	2.83%
Oct 21, 2026	3,996	114	6	3	59	3.08%
Oct 20, 2026	2,066	90	0	4	34	4.55%
Oct 19, 2026	9,929	271	2	5	67	2.80%
Oct 17, 2026	97,500	10,600	149	300	1,097	11.33%
Oct 14, 2026	4,515	184	1	2	94	4.14%
Sep 22, 2026	1,427	86	3	1	35	6.31%
Sep 21, 2026	10,700	183	0	3	48	1.74%
Sep 21, 2026	488	13	0	0	2	2.66%
Sep 21, 2026	26,500	891	5	42	152	3.54%
Sep 20, 2026	13,100	378	4	6	91	2.96%
Sep 18, 2026	1,709	34	1	2	5	2.17%
Sep 16, 2026	34,200	304	3	27	185	0.98%
Sep 16, 2026	13,100	102	1	6	56	0.83%
Sep 16, 2026	1,886	92	0	1	19	4.93%
Sep 14, 2026	31,500	342	2	19	168	1.15%
May 8, 2023	95,100	2,168	111	61	354	2.46%
May 25, 2022	252,400	7,291	437	110	542	3.11%