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An Institution To Help You Choose Yourself Research. Substack. Podcast. 📚Decentering Men: The Definitive Guide to Choosing Yourself (Mar 27) ⬇️ The Work

card updated Nov 2, 2026 · 21 clips parsed · following 746 · 1,100,000 likes total

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Account summary

@charliestoolbox has 43,100 followers and 216 videos. Across the 21 parsed clips the average is 4,655 views and 677 likes. Engagement to views is 15.35%, which is above average for TikTok. On the newer half of the feed the response is falling (−1.93 pp). Posts roughly 0.8 times a week. An average clip reaches 11% of the follower count.

Followers

43.1K

+100 in period

Engagement

15.35%

−1.93 pp newer half

Average views

4.7K

median 1.7K

Likes per clip

677

14 comments avg

Shares / saves

23 / 147

3.16% of viewers save

Posting rate

0.8 / wk

reach 11% of followers

Latest clips

21 collected

Every page of Decentering Men: The Definitive Guide to Choosing Yourse — @charliestoolbox

8051:39Every page of Decentering Men: The Definitive Guide to Choosing Yourself is an invitation to take your life back from a 942319

Why do you automatically trust that they are giving sound advice? #men — @charliestoolbox

1.3K1:03Why do you automatically trust that they are giving sound advice? #men #decentermen #decenteringmen 13913315

You need to know it’s possible. #decenteringmen #decentermen #women — @charliestoolbox

3.4K1:30You need to know it’s possible. #decenteringmen #decentermen #women 6871212127

Choosing yourself is a business strategy #woman #women #selfhelp — @charliestoolbox

1.3K1:42Choosing yourself is a business strategy #woman #women #selfhelp 1906332

She promised nothing would change when she got married, and now you he — @charliestoolbox

1.2KShe promised nothing would change when she got married, and now you hear about her life from her stories like everyone e606116

Chaos does not create the best tools #women #career #advice — @charliestoolbox

1.1K1:23Chaos does not create the best tools #women #career #advice1182232

#friends #friendships #women — @charliestoolbox

3.2K1:25#friends #friendships #women 3245654

1.2K1:01#adhd #women #aging 1227230

What happens when you don’t have social capital and all your mentors a — @charliestoolbox

5.2K1:26What happens when you don’t have social capital and all your mentors are pressed for time. #women #career 8221414265

Everyone feels entitled to decide where the single, child-free woman b — @charliestoolbox

956Everyone feels entitled to decide where the single, child-free woman belongs in their life, and almost no one asks what 400112

You keep signing up and saying yes, and then you turn resentful becaus — @charliestoolbox

3.6K1:15You keep signing up and saying yes, and then you turn resentful because it isn’t what you want to do. #single #women #fr429204116

Not every friend occupies the same role. #single #women #friends — @charliestoolbox

5.6K1:15Not every friend occupies the same role. #single #women #friends 47810893

Every season your friends will change, which is why detachment is a gr — @charliestoolbox

7.1K1:42Every season your friends will change, which is why detachment is a great skill to have. #friendships #friends #women #1K1628227

Replying to @SessiVee not everyone has that strength. So, you must ask — @charliestoolbox

1.5K1:08Replying to @SessiVee not everyone has that strength. So, you must ask yourself can we play different roles and still fe9418317

#single #singlewomen #friends — @charliestoolbox

45.9K1:13#single #singlewomen #friends 8.4K1103581.8K

What good are boundaries when every time you set them, you end up havi — @charliestoolbox

1.6K1:14What good are boundaries when every time you set them, you end up having a panic attack? #selfhelp #selfcare #women 1464130

Watch my series where I discuss three types of friendships you need as — @charliestoolbox

2.6K1:01Watch my series where I discuss three types of friendships you need as a single woman. #single #women #woman 33392386

Let me know what types of friendships you think are necessary as a sin — @charliestoolbox

1.8K1:13Let me know what types of friendships you think are necessary as a single woman #single #women #decentermen 20915955

Shut up. #greenscreen — @charliestoolbox

1.7K0:32Shut up. #greenscreen 1755325

Stop being bleak #change — @charliestoolbox

1.2K1:30Stop being bleak #change 1591216

Excited to announce that I’m officially writing a book! I recently sub — @charliestoolbox

5.6KExcited to announce that I’m officially writing a book! I recently submitted my last draft & I’ve delivered something am19114629

Engagement per clip

21 parsed clips · newest on the right · click a bar to open the clip peak: 21.1% ER

Apr 29Oct 6Oct 30

Date	Views	Likes	Comments	Shares	Saves	ER
Oct 30, 2026	805	94	2	3	19	12.30%
Oct 29, 2026	1,251	139	13	3	15	12.39%
Oct 28, 2026	3,363	687	12	12	127	21.14%
Oct 27, 2026	1,292	190	6	3	32	15.40%
Oct 26, 2026	1,246	60	6	1	16	5.38%
Oct 23, 2026	1,082	118	2	2	32	11.28%
Oct 22, 2026	3,232	324	5	6	54	10.37%
Oct 21, 2026	1,167	122	7	2	30	11.23%
Oct 20, 2026	5,247	822	14	14	265	16.20%
Oct 19, 2026	956	40	0	1	12	4.29%
Oct 6, 2026	3,552	429	20	4	116	12.75%
Oct 5, 2026	5,634	478	10	8	93	8.80%
Oct 4, 2026	7,064	1,001	16	28	227	14.79%
Oct 4, 2026	1,487	94	18	3	17	7.73%
Oct 3, 2026	45,900	8,410	110	358	1,795	19.34%
Oct 2, 2026	1,555	146	4	1	30	9.71%
Sep 30, 2026	2,563	333	9	23	86	14.24%
Sep 28, 2026	1,794	209	15	9	55	12.99%
Sep 26, 2026	1,722	175	5	3	25	10.63%
Sep 25, 2026	1,213	159	1	2	16	13.36%
Apr 29, 2026	5,635	191	14	6	29	3.74%