@beyondthebruiseMarcela 🌹

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card updated Nov 3, 2026 · 24 clips parsed · following 82 · 9,600,000 likes total

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Engagement6.95%normal range

Account summary

@beyondthebruise has 206,800 followers and 1,153 videos. Across the 24 parsed clips the average is 937,671 views and 56,505 likes. Engagement to views is 6.95%, which is normal range for TikTok. On the newer half of the feed the response is rising (+1.65 pp). Posts roughly 0.2 times a week. An average clip reaches 453% of the follower count.

Followers

206.8K

+2.4K in period

Engagement

6.95%

+1.65 pp newer half

Average views

937.7K

median 14.2K

Likes per clip

56.5K

845 comments avg

Shares / saves

7.8K / 11.6K

1.24% of viewers save

Posting rate

0.2 / wk

reach 453% of followers

Latest clips

24 collected

They will do anything to protect their fragile sense of self… #emotion — @beyondthebruise

1K0:30They will do anything to protect their fragile sense of self… #emotionalabuse #traumabond #covertnarcissist #narcissist641313

Funny (not funny) how they can ruin your entire mood and then act like — @beyondthebruise

22.7K1:01Funny (not funny) how they can ruin your entire mood and then act like nothing happened.. #emotionalabuse #traumabond #c2.2K107190406

10 signs ⬇️ 1. Extreme sensitivity to criticism 2. Quiet sense of supe — @beyondthebruise

113.3K3:4610 signs ⬇️ 1. Extreme sensitivity to criticism 2. Quiet sense of superiority 3. Feeling chronically unappreciated 4. H7K2456742.6K

three things you can do to protect your peace in the meantime… 1. Grey — @beyondthebruise

9.9K1:46three things you can do to protect your peace in the meantime… 1. Grey rock 2. Limit the information you tell them 3. Qu6662152210

Weaponized incompetence can be hard to spot because eventually, doing — @beyondthebruise

5K1:44Weaponized incompetence can be hard to spot because eventually, doing it yourself genuinely feels easier than getting th336122094

It works every time… #emotionalabuse #traumabond #narcabuse — @beyondthebruise

17K1:37It works every time… #emotionalabuse #traumabond #narcabuse 1.1K3155263

Your feelings were real even if your understanding of the person was w — @beyondthebruise

12.9K2:01Your feelings were real even if your understanding of the person was wrong… #emotionalabuse #traumabond #narcabuse 1.4K5878384

Ego-syntonic: when something about the way you think or behave feels c — @beyondthebruise

16.3K1:37Ego-syntonic: when something about the way you think or behave feels completely normal and justified to you. And this ex1.5K2898532

Funny how they discard you when you start seeing them for who they are — @beyondthebruise

5.2K1:04Funny how they discard you when you start seeing them for who they are… #narcdiscard #discard #emotionalabuse #traumabo3915784

It’s a win-win… #narcissist #narcabuse #emotionalabuse — @beyondthebruise

85.7K1:51It’s a win-win… #narcissist #narcabuse #emotionalabuse 7.2K1894362.7K

You don’t need to understand how they threw you away to know you deser — @beyondthebruise

11.4K0:43You don’t need to understand how they threw you away to know you deserved better… ❤️ #emotionalabuse #discard #narctok 9184828207

You shouldn’t have to calculate the safest way to exist around your pa — @beyondthebruise

30.9K1:04You shouldn’t have to calculate the safest way to exist around your partner… #emotionalabuse #traumabond #narctok 3K62203783

Sometimes the biggest lie is the part of the story they leave out… #na — @beyondthebruise

18.8K0:42Sometimes the biggest lie is the part of the story they leave out… #narcissisticabuse #traumabond #emotionalabuse 2.1K46109531

If you can’t have the good without the bad…how good is the good? #cogn — @beyondthebruise

6.4K0:47If you can’t have the good without the bad…how good is the good? #cognitivedissonance #emotionalabuse #narcissisticabuse509928131

Stop letting the newest promise erase the oldest pattern 🙏 #traumabond — @beyondthebruise

2.5K1:06Stop letting the newest promise erase the oldest pattern 🙏 #traumabond #emotionalabuse #narcissisticabuse 1573854

Save this for the next time your brain starts romanticizing them 🫶 whe — @beyondthebruise

8.2K1:03Save this for the next time your brain starts romanticizing them 🫶 when the trauma bond gets loud, we anchor in reality 7051872456

Why are we waiting for the second time to decide the first time matter — @beyondthebruise

3.3K1:36Why are we waiting for the second time to decide the first time mattered? #traumabond #emotionalabuse #narctok 34311860

Do they actually respect you as a separate person…or do they only like — @beyondthebruise

13.7K1:12Do they actually respect you as a separate person…or do they only like the version of you that cooperates with them? #gr1K1143280

Don’t just pay attention to how much someone seems like you in the beg — @beyondthebruise

5.3K1:23Don’t just pay attention to how much someone seems like you in the beginning. Pay attention to whether they’re still tha33551068

Because one of the easiest ways to make themselves look like the victi — @beyondthebruise

14.7K1:09Because one of the easiest ways to make themselves look like the victim… is to start the story halfway through. #narciss1.5K2998484

The fastest way to disarm a narcissist? Stop giving them anything to m — @beyondthebruise

7.7M1:04The fastest way to disarm a narcissist? Stop giving them anything to manipulate. #toxicrelationships #narcissisticabuse253.9K3.2K32.1K66K

This one behavior says so much about his true character 🚩 #narcissist — @beyondthebruise

3.4M1:01This one behavior says so much about his true character 🚩 #narcissist #narctok #dvawareness #narcissism #toxicrelations219.2K3.8K43K33.2K

reactive abuse: a manipulation tactic used by the abuser to justify or — @beyondthebruise

3.7M1:14reactive abuse: a manipulation tactic used by the abuser to justify or obscure their own actions. Reactive abuse isn’t y358.8K5.3K44.3K99.3K

The moment we stop engaging, we disarm them. Step 1 in taking your pow — @beyondthebruise

7.3M0:30The moment we stop engaging, we disarm them. Step 1 in taking your power back!! #DomesticViolenceAwareness #EndDomesticV491.8K7K65.3K69.5K

Engagement per clip

24 parsed clips · newest on the right · click a bar to open the clip peak: 12.1% ER

Nov 23Sep 18Oct 29

Date	Views	Likes	Comments	Shares	Saves	ER
Oct 29, 2026	1,005	64	1	3	13	6.77%
Oct 28, 2026	22,700	2,185	107	190	406	10.93%
Oct 27, 2026	113,300	7,015	245	674	2,596	7.00%
Oct 27, 2026	9,856	666	21	52	210	7.50%
Oct 26, 2026	4,975	336	12	20	94	7.40%
Oct 25, 2026	17,000	1,055	31	55	263	6.71%
Oct 24, 2026	12,900	1,425	58	78	384	12.10%
Oct 23, 2026	16,300	1,504	28	98	532	10.00%
Oct 22, 2026	5,187	391	5	7	84	7.77%
Oct 21, 2026	85,700	7,215	189	436	2,734	9.15%
Sep 19, 2026	11,400	918	48	28	207	8.72%
Sep 18, 2026	30,900	2,973	62	203	783	10.48%
Sep 18, 2026	18,800	2,055	46	109	531	11.76%
Sep 17, 2026	6,380	509	9	28	131	8.56%
Sep 17, 2026	2,456	157	3	8	54	6.84%
Sep 15, 2026	8,250	705	18	72	456	9.64%
Sep 15, 2026	3,255	343	11	8	60	11.12%
Sep 14, 2026	13,700	1,045	11	43	280	8.02%
Sep 11, 2026	5,346	335	5	10	68	6.55%
Sep 11, 2026	14,700	1,516	29	98	484	11.18%
Feb 15, 2025	7,700,000	253,900	3,239	32,100	65,992	3.76%
Jan 27, 2025	3,400,000	219,200	3,827	43,000	33,181	7.82%
Dec 28, 2024	3,700,000	358,800	5,287	44,300	99,346	11.04%
Nov 23, 2024	7,300,000	491,800	6,985	65,300	69,535	7.73%