@beyondthebruiseM 🌹

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card updated Sep 20, 2026 · 13 clips parsed · following 78 · 9,400,000 likes total

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Engagement6.58%normal range

Account summary

@beyondthebruise has 204,400 followers and 1,105 videos. Across the 13 parsed clips the average is 1,139,630 views and 64,804 likes. Engagement to views is 6.58%, which is normal range for TikTok. On the newer half of the feed the response is rising (+3.61 pp). Posts roughly 0.1 times a week. An average clip reaches 558% of the follower count.

Followers

204.4K

history is still being collected

Engagement

6.58%

+3.61 pp newer half

Average views

1.1M

median 13.7K

Likes per clip

64.8K

969 comments avg

Shares / saves

9.2K / 15.5K

1.36% of viewers save

Posting rate

0.1 / wk

reach 558% of followers

Latest clips

13 collected

You don’t need to understand how they threw you away to know you deser — @beyondthebruise

11.4K0:43You don’t need to understand how they threw you away to know you deserved better… ❤️ #emotionalabuse #discard #narctok 9184828207

You shouldn’t have to calculate the safest way to exist around your pa — @beyondthebruise

30.9K1:04You shouldn’t have to calculate the safest way to exist around your partner… #emotionalabuse #traumabond #narctok 3K62203783

Sometimes the biggest lie is the part of the story they leave out… #na — @beyondthebruise

18.8K0:42Sometimes the biggest lie is the part of the story they leave out… #narcissisticabuse #traumabond #emotionalabuse 2.1K46109531

If you can’t have the good without the bad…how good is the good? #cogn — @beyondthebruise

6.4K0:47If you can’t have the good without the bad…how good is the good? #cognitivedissonance #emotionalabuse #narcissisticabuse509928131

Stop letting the newest promise erase the oldest pattern 🙏 #traumabond — @beyondthebruise

2.5K1:06Stop letting the newest promise erase the oldest pattern 🙏 #traumabond #emotionalabuse #narcissisticabuse 1573854

Save this for the next time your brain starts romanticizing them 🫶 whe — @beyondthebruise

8.2K1:03Save this for the next time your brain starts romanticizing them 🫶 when the trauma bond gets loud, we anchor in reality 7051872456

Why are we waiting for the second time to decide the first time matter — @beyondthebruise

3.3K1:36Why are we waiting for the second time to decide the first time mattered? #traumabond #emotionalabuse #narctok 34311860

Do they actually respect you as a separate person…or do they only like — @beyondthebruise

13.7K1:12Do they actually respect you as a separate person…or do they only like the version of you that cooperates with them? #gr1K1143280

Don’t just pay attention to how much someone seems like you in the beg — @beyondthebruise

5.3K1:23Don’t just pay attention to how much someone seems like you in the beginning. Pay attention to whether they’re still tha33551068

Because one of the easiest ways to make themselves look like the victi — @beyondthebruise

14.7K1:09Because one of the easiest ways to make themselves look like the victim… is to start the story halfway through. #narciss1.5K2998484

The fastest way to disarm a narcissist? Stop giving them anything to m — @beyondthebruise

7.6M1:04The fastest way to disarm a narcissist? Stop giving them anything to manipulate. #toxicrelationships #narcissisticabuse253.9K3.2K32.1K66K

This one behavior says so much about his true character 🚩 #narcissist — @beyondthebruise

3.4M1:01This one behavior says so much about his true character 🚩 #narcissist #narctok #dvawareness #narcissism #toxicrelations219.2K3.8K43K33.2K

reactive abuse: a manipulation tactic used by the abuser to justify or — @beyondthebruise

3.7M1:14reactive abuse: a manipulation tactic used by the abuser to justify or obscure their own actions. Reactive abuse isn’t y358.8K5.3K44.3K99.3K

Engagement per clip

13 parsed clips · newest on the right · click a bar to open the clip peak: 11.8% ER

Dec 28Sep 15Sep 19

Date	Views	Likes	Comments	Shares	Saves	ER
Sep 19, 2026	11,400	918	48	28	207	8.72%
Sep 18, 2026	30,900	2,973	62	203	783	10.48%
Sep 18, 2026	18,800	2,055	46	109	531	11.76%
Sep 17, 2026	6,380	509	9	28	131	8.56%
Sep 17, 2026	2,456	157	3	8	54	6.84%
Sep 15, 2026	8,250	705	18	72	456	9.64%
Sep 15, 2026	3,255	343	11	8	60	11.12%
Sep 14, 2026	13,700	1,045	11	43	280	8.02%
Sep 11, 2026	5,346	335	5	10	68	6.55%
Sep 11, 2026	14,700	1,516	29	98	484	11.18%
Feb 15, 2025	7,600,000	253,900	3,239	32,100	65,992	3.81%
Jan 27, 2025	3,400,000	219,200	3,827	43,000	33,181	7.82%
Dec 28, 2024	3,700,000	358,800	5,287	44,300	99,346	11.04%