@attachmentnerdEli Harwood

Family Therapist Mom of 3 and Author PREORDER HOW TO DEAL book👇

card updated Sep 12, 2026 · 10 clips parsed · following 342 · 1,700,000 likes total

Engagement9.17%above average

Account summary

@attachmentnerd has 163,300 followers and 467 videos. Across the 10 parsed clips the average is 8,408 views and 651 likes. Engagement to views is 9.17%, which is above average for TikTok. On the newer half of the feed the response is falling (−1.38 pp). Posts roughly 0.2 times a week. An average clip reaches 5% of the follower count.

Followers

163.3K

+0 in period

Engagement

9.17%

−1.38 pp newer half

Average views

8.4K

median 6.5K

Likes per clip

651

23 comments avg

Shares / saves

98 / 288

3.42% of viewers save

Posting rate

0.2 / wk

reach 5% of followers

Latest clips

10 collected

To everyone who is giving your kids the love and support you didn’t ge — @attachmentnerd

6.9K1:01To everyone who is giving your kids the love and support you didn’t get: YOU GOT THIS!!! Love on. Check out my bio for868982421

Sometimes I day dream about parenting children in an era without inter — @attachmentnerd

33.6K2:19Sometimes I day dream about parenting children in an era without internet. But since that’s not my reality, I instead re1.9K435721.5K

The most important parenting tool we have, is our bond with our childr — @attachmentnerd

6.3K1:06The most important parenting tool we have, is our bond with our children. It is the foundation that helps them develop p7401189413

There are no bad kids. There are kids who lack the brain development f — @attachmentnerd

7.7K0:42There are no bad kids. There are kids who lack the brain development for impulse control, there are kids who are navigat659194892

Depression is the worst. And it’s incredibly common. Our bodies and mo — @attachmentnerd

6.7K1:19Depression is the worst. And it’s incredibly common. Our bodies and moods can get out of whack as a result of all sorts 337183472

To those of you parenting without a clear map of what secure parenting — @attachmentnerd

3.1K2:06To those of you parenting without a clear map of what secure parenting looks and feels like, I see you. To those of you 2371030105

One week from tomorrow!!!! The final week for preordering and getting — @attachmentnerd

2.9K0:49One week from tomorrow!!!! The final week for preordering and getting the preorder goodies I’ve got for all you early bi172102364

1. A bear devoured both of the placentas that came from my pregnancy w — @attachmentnerd

2.2K0:431. A bear devoured both of the placentas that came from my pregnancy with my twins by stealing them out of my garage fre37709

No matter how well we care for our children and offer them secure guid — @attachmentnerd

9.8K2:47No matter how well we care for our children and offer them secure guidance: there will always be judgment from others. O1.1K893469

True beloning in childhood is so much more than sharing a last name or — @attachmentnerd

5K1:24True beloning in childhood is so much more than sharing a last name or having a room in a home or a place at a table, it4751163154

Engagement per clip

10 parsed clips · newest on the right · click a bar to open the clip peak: 13.9% ER

Jun 5Oct 20Jun 19

Date	Views	Likes	Comments	Shares	Saves	ER
Jun 19, 2025	6,881	868	9	82	421	13.94%
Apr 23, 2025	33,600	1,850	43	572	1,480	7.34%
Apr 4, 2025	6,252	740	11	89	413	13.44%
Nov 9, 2024	7,657	659	19	48	92	9.48%
Oct 20, 2024	6,747	337	18	34	72	5.77%
Sep 29, 2024	3,111	237	10	30	105	8.90%
Aug 26, 2024	2,855	172	10	23	64	7.18%
Aug 7, 2024	2,226	37	7	0	9	1.98%
Jun 17, 2024	9,765	1,137	89	34	69	12.90%
Jun 5, 2024	4,985	475	11	63	154	11.01%