@ashleahoessAshlea

♥️Modern dating advice for men Building self-worth, self love and standards IG @ashleahoess For appointments see links ⬇️ below

card updated Sep 27, 2026 · 13 clips parsed · following 90 · 4,900,000 likes total

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Engagement5.41%normal range

Account summary

@ashleahoess has 175,000 followers and 1,451 videos. Across the 13 parsed clips the average is 42,616 views and 2,107 likes. Engagement to views is 5.41%, which is normal range for TikTok. On the newer half of the feed the response is rising (+1.05 pp). Posts roughly 1.0 times a week. An average clip reaches 24% of the follower count.

Followers

175K

+18.7K in period

Engagement

5.41%

+1.05 pp newer half

Average views

42.6K

median 29.7K

Likes per clip

2.1K

94 comments avg

Shares / saves

106 / 481

1.13% of viewers save

Posting rate

1.0 / wk

reach 24% of followers

Latest clips

13 collected

She doesnt want you, she wants to keep you around while she finds some — @ashleahoess

25.4K0:15She doesnt want you, she wants to keep you around while she finds someone else. #datingadvice #relationshipadvice #relat1.1K3731213

You will lose respect for a woman who chases you and tells you what to — @ashleahoess

2.8K1:05You will lose respect for a woman who chases you and tells you what to do. #datingadvice #relationshipadvice #relationsh15918628

Its all fun and games, until its not. #datingadvice #relationshipadvic — @ashleahoess

41.9K1:18Its all fun and games, until its not. #datingadvice #relationshipadvice #relationships #dating #fyp1.6K4239346

Never. be. the. option #datingadvice #relationshipadvice #relationship — @ashleahoess

29.7K0:45Never. be. the. option #datingadvice #relationshipadvice #relationships #dating #fyp2.5K104108480

Thats the first time YOU caught her in a lie... but its not the first — @ashleahoess

29.4K0:26Thats the first time YOU caught her in a lie... but its not the first lie she has told you #datingadvice #relationshipad1.5K6095264

She leaves. The streets suck. She comes back. She tells you what you w — @ashleahoess

115.3K1:07She leaves. The streets suck. She comes back. She tells you what you want to hear. She leaves again. Thee end #datingadv6.7K2152361.5K

She does not want to be held accountable #datingadvice #relationshipad — @ashleahoess

112.1K1:32She does not want to be held accountable #datingadvice #relationshipadvice #relationships #dating #fyp5.7K1416001.8K

People only change when the discomfort of where they are at is more un — @ashleahoess

8.2K0:23People only change when the discomfort of where they are at is more uncomfortable than the fear of the unknown #datingad601261393

The truth #Dating #DatingAdvice #Relationships #RelationshipAdvice #FY — @ashleahoess

50K1:28The truth #Dating #DatingAdvice #Relationships #RelationshipAdvice #FYP 2.4K31276648

A woman who keeps moving the goal post is the perfect person to commun — @ashleahoess

27.3K1:17A woman who keeps moving the goal post is the perfect person to communicate boundaries with #Dating #DatingAdvice #Relat2K6478468

If you’ve ever wondered why you keep attracting the same people, ignor — @ashleahoess

17.5KIf you’ve ever wondered why you keep attracting the same people, ignore red flags, or mistake confusion for connection—t387172585

Free guide out now!! 🧿♥️🌞 Red flags in the early stages of dating♥️ li — @ashleahoess

43.5K0:23Free guide out now!! 🧿♥️🌞 Red flags in the early stages of dating♥️ link in bio #datingadvice #relationshipadvice #dati8353141126

Link in bio. ♥️#business #selfworth #dating #love #fyp — @ashleahoess

50.9K0:05Link in bio. ♥️#business #selfworth #dating #love #fyp1.8K15235179

Engagement per clip

13 parsed clips · newest on the right · click a bar to open the clip peak: 9.2% ER

Jun 7Aug 31Sep 2

Date	Views	Likes	Comments	Shares	Saves	ER
Sep 2, 2026	25,400	1,088	37	31	213	4.55%
Sep 2, 2026	2,819	159	18	6	28	6.49%
Sep 2, 2026	41,900	1,648	42	39	346	4.13%
Sep 1, 2026	29,700	2,531	104	108	480	9.24%
Sep 1, 2026	29,400	1,526	60	95	264	5.72%
Sep 1, 2026	115,300	6,719	215	236	1,483	6.22%
Aug 31, 2026	112,100	5,737	141	600	1,843	5.78%
Aug 31, 2026	8,188	601	26	13	93	7.82%
Aug 31, 2026	50,000	2,397	312	76	648	5.57%
Aug 31, 2026	27,300	1,987	64	78	468	7.80%
Jun 20, 2026	17,500	387	17	25	85	2.45%
Jun 15, 2026	43,500	835	31	41	126	2.09%
Jun 7, 2026	50,900	1,780	152	35	179	3.86%