@ascedbymeCed

Bombay Beach, CA (Tribeca Film Winner) Former NFL Player, Husband & Father of 3 Thinking things through with you, relationally. Cappuccinos only ☕️

card updated Oct 22, 2026 · 13 clips parsed · following 76 · 14,400,000 likes total

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Engagement15.83%above average

Account summary

@ascedbyme has 477,400 followers and 244 videos. Across the 13 parsed clips the average is 4,558,682 views and 689,386 likes. Engagement to views is 15.83%, which is above average for TikTok. On the newer half of the feed the response is falling (−7.25 pp). An average clip reaches 955% of the follower count.

Followers

477.4K

−800 in period

Engagement

15.83%

−7.25 pp newer half

Average views

4.6M

median 63.2K

Likes per clip

689.4K

6K comments avg

Shares / saves

26K / 26.9K

0.59% of viewers save

Posting rate

—

reach 955% of followers

Latest clips

13 collected

One day, my hand won’t be there to hold. But if I’ve done this right, — @ascedbyme

2K1:19One day, my hand won’t be there to hold. But if I’ve done this right, they’ll reach for each other’s. And somehow, that 2761357

This didn’t happen overnight. It took years. Years of catching them of — @ascedbyme

9.4K0:33This didn’t happen overnight. It took years. Years of catching them off this porch. But more than that, years of catchin1.1K293635

I drew this mental load map to better understand my wife, and when I s — @ascedbyme

214.4K1:51I drew this mental load map to better understand my wife, and when I showed it to her, she looked at it and said, “Yeah,20.4K46110.1K4.9K

Nobody signs up for marriage hoping to only make it 8 years. And if yo — @ascedbyme

2.7K1:41Nobody signs up for marriage hoping to only make it 8 years. And if you’re married right now and still under year 8, the12221314

My oldest has expressed interest in pursuing performing arts for as lo — @ascedbyme

63.2K2:39My oldest has expressed interest in pursuing performing arts for as long as she could walk, and the time came for her to4.5K6536396

That was one of the hardest days of my life. Newly pregnant, new house — @ascedbyme

418.3K1:21That was one of the hardest days of my life. Newly pregnant, new house, and the thing I had worked toward since I was a 23.1K3538541K

Found a meal all three of them actually like. Adding it to the permane — @ascedbyme

13.2K1:07Found a meal all three of them actually like. Adding it to the permanent rotation.4996312

The @NFL sent me a letter saying I didn’t have what it took to be draf — @ascedbyme

10.1K1:10The @NFL sent me a letter saying I didn’t have what it took to be drafted. I laminated it. Made 10 copies. Put them ever27931814

The work you do in private matters, but she’s been watching you long e — @ascedbyme

8.9K1:43The work you do in private matters, but she’s been watching you long enough that your patterns belong to both of you now34152332

This one still stings in a way I wish it didn’t. I spent a long time b — @ascedbyme

220.6K1:45This one still stings in a way I wish it didn’t. I spent a long time blaming everyone but myself when my NFL career ende11.4K269445901

My mornings with my girls weren’t always like this. In fact, I did thi — @ascedbyme

17.8M1:17My mornings with my girls weren’t always like this. In fact, I did things I wasn’t proud of, and that was the catalyst f1.7M20.3K102.5K69.4K

My dad always said, “Ceejay, pay attention, read, and react.” I believ — @ascedbyme

15.1M1:08My dad always said, “Ceejay, pay attention, read, and react.” I believe he picked up this term from my Pop Warner footb2.1M16.3K129.2K108.9K

Fatherhood has been my greatest and most fuflling job yet. Not easy, b — @ascedbyme

25.4M0:45Fatherhood has been my greatest and most fuflling job yet. Not easy, but worth it every single day. #parentsoftiktok #gi5.1M40.5K95.4K164.7K

Engagement per clip

13 parsed clips · newest on the right · click a bar to open the clip peak: 20.6% ER

Aug 5Apr 10Sep 2

Date	Views	Likes	Comments	Shares	Saves	ER
Sep 2, 2026	2,008	276	13	5	7	14.64%
Jul 22, 2026	9,410	1,096	29	36	35	12.34%
Jun 3, 2026	214,400	20,400	461	10,100	4,940	14.44%
May 20, 2026	2,718	122	2	13	14	5.04%
Apr 30, 2026	63,200	4,509	65	36	396	7.29%
Apr 22, 2026	418,300	23,100	353	854	1,017	5.81%
Apr 10, 2026	13,200	499	6	3	12	3.85%
Mar 25, 2026	10,100	279	3	18	14	2.97%
Mar 18, 2026	8,929	341	5	23	32	4.13%
Mar 16, 2026	220,600	11,400	269	445	901	5.49%
Apr 18, 2023	17,800,000	1,700,000	20,300	102,500	69,406	10.24%
Feb 15, 2023	15,100,000	2,100,000	16,300	129,200	108,865	14.87%
Aug 5, 2021	25,400,000	5,100,000	40,500	95,400	164,702	20.61%