@arienmalikArien Malik

LOVE YOU LIKE YOU MEAN IT. 📩gogetterswantd@gmail.com Get Better at Relationships👇🏾

card updated Sep 11, 2026 · 16 clips parsed · following 3 · 7,900,000 likes total

Engagement18.25%above average

Account summary

@arienmalik has 140,000 followers and 1,340 videos. Across the 16 parsed clips the average is 59,385 views and 9,423 likes. Engagement to views is 18.25%, which is above average for TikTok. On the newer half of the feed the response is rising (+1.39 pp). Posts roughly 0.4 times a week. An average clip reaches 42% of the follower count.

Followers

140K

+100 in period

Engagement

18.25%

+1.39 pp newer half

Average views

59.4K

median 3.5K

Likes per clip

9.4K

202 comments avg

Shares / saves

1.2K / 3.4K

5.76% of viewers save

Posting rate

0.4 / wk

reach 42% of followers

Latest clips

16 collected

One of the most underrated communication skills. — @arienmalik

9780:52One of the most underrated communication skills. 924119

How to shut down a narcissist when they try to gaslight you! Notice ho — @arienmalik

2.6K1:54How to shut down a narcissist when they try to gaslight you! Notice how fast an uncommunicated expectation turns into a27118659

32.6K0:24Right or wrong? 3.9K51119768

If you actually want to have better arguments with your partner, start — @arienmalik

1.1K1:17If you actually want to have better arguments with your partner, start here. Winning isn’t about getting the last word o992934

Sometimes understanding someone becomes a way of avoiding actually get — @arienmalik

2.5K1:00Sometimes understanding someone becomes a way of avoiding actually getting close to them. Being good at reading people d1236330

When someone makes you question a boundary (and you actually like them — @arienmalik

1.2K1:43When someone makes you question a boundary (and you actually like them). Before you change your boundary, ask yourself t1251428

How to be honest without starting an argument. Telling the truth in a — @arienmalik

2.2K1:36How to be honest without starting an argument. Telling the truth in a relationship doesn’t have to mean being harsh, def16131352

What does consideration actually look like in a relationship? Consider — @arienmalik

214.3K1:41What does consideration actually look like in a relationship? Consideration isn’t just about grand gestures. It’s about 39.7K2094.6K12K

5 ways people invalidate your feelings. If you want to know how to res — @arienmalik

8.1K1:415 ways people invalidate your feelings. If you want to know how to respond when someone invalidates you, watch my most r625933237

When you know how to navigate conflict without getting defensive or le — @arienmalik

4.4K1:21When you know how to navigate conflict without getting defensive or letting someone invalidate you, the whole dynamic sh5041133200

Good intentions mean nothing if you don't have the skills, emotional i — @arienmalik

1.9K0:43Good intentions mean nothing if you don't have the skills, emotional intelligence, and standards to back them up. Do you28461063

Most men learn these truths the hard way… After wasting years on the w — @arienmalik

20.1K1:23Most men learn these truths the hard way… After wasting years on the wrong people, getting drained, or watching a good 2.3K17107506

Someone with poor character can NEVER tell me about mine. — @arienmalik

48.4K0:16Someone with poor character can NEVER tell me about mine. 8.1K1664701.5K

You were uniquely made to be different. Stay that way. — @arienmalik

1.2K1:02You were uniquely made to be different. Stay that way. 1504713

What else would you add to the list? Only 10 days left for the Healthy — @arienmalik

260.7K1:32What else would you add to the list? Only 10 days left for the Healthy Relationship Guide free giveaway in exchange fo32.8K2512.2K20.6K

Your emotional intelligence isn't a flaw. It’s the nervous system upgr — @arienmalik

347.9K1:43Your emotional intelligence isn't a flaw. It’s the nervous system upgrade most people haven't installed yet. The Science61.5K2.5K11.7K18.6K

Engagement per clip

16 parsed clips · newest on the right · click a bar to open the clip peak: 21.8% ER

Dec 2Sep 6Sep 15

Date	Views	Likes	Comments	Shares	Saves	ER
Sep 15, 2026	978	92	4	1	19	9.92%
Sep 15, 2026	2,634	271	18	6	59	11.20%
Sep 12, 2026	32,600	3,949	51	119	768	12.63%
Sep 12, 2026	1,108	99	2	9	34	9.93%
Sep 11, 2026	2,482	123	6	3	30	5.32%
Sep 10, 2026	1,211	125	1	4	28	10.73%
Sep 9, 2026	2,214	161	3	13	52	7.99%
Sep 6, 2026	214,300	39,700	209	4,618	12,022	20.78%
Sep 3, 2026	8,109	625	9	33	237	8.23%
Sep 1, 2026	4,374	504	11	33	200	12.53%
Aug 31, 2026	1,853	284	6	10	63	16.19%
Aug 31, 2026	20,100	2,297	17	107	506	12.04%
Aug 29, 2026	48,400	8,089	166	470	1,519	18.03%
Aug 28, 2026	1,203	150	4	7	13	13.38%
Jul 13, 2026	260,700	32,800	251	2,236	20,581	13.54%
Dec 2, 2025	347,900	61,500	2,482	11,700	18,561	21.75%