@anxiouslyalejAlejandra Maria

❤️ Dating Strategist For Successful Women 1:1 Sessions & MASTERCLASS⬇️

card updated Oct 16, 2026 · 15 clips parsed · following 557 · 12,800,000 likes total

Engagement10.62%above average

Account summary

@anxiouslyalej has 526,600 followers and 592 videos. Across the 15 parsed clips the average is 136,736 views and 13,478 likes. Engagement to views is 10.62%, which is above average for TikTok. On the newer half of the feed the response is rising (+1.1 pp). Posts roughly 2.3 times a week. An average clip reaches 26% of the follower count.

Followers

526.6K

+3.9K in period

Engagement

10.62%

+1.1 pp newer half

Average views

136.7K

median 32.8K

Likes per clip

13.5K

243 comments avg

Shares / saves

802 / 1.7K

1.24% of viewers save

Posting rate

2.3 / wk

reach 26% of followers

Latest clips

15 collected

Do I like the person I’ve become around this person? Before you ask wh — @anxiouslyalej

4.3K2:50Do I like the person I’ve become around this person? Before you ask whether a relationship is worth saving, ask that. Wh38181575

When a man loves you, you just have to exist. A man who loves you does — @anxiouslyalej

7.8K1:42When a man loves you, you just have to exist. A man who loves you does all the love languages, so you can forget which o1.1K2076249

Sometimes another man will do more for you and your children than your — @anxiouslyalej

32.8K2:55Sometimes another man will do more for you and your children than your ex-husband ever did while you were married. I got5.8K100308818

Never underestimate just how haunting your absence can be. A man doesn — @anxiouslyalej

132.1K1:19Never underestimate just how haunting your absence can be. A man doesn’t regret losing you the day you walk away, he reg15.3K2735242.9K

This is what avoidants actually respond to. #feminineenergy #womensdat — @anxiouslyalej

6.4K1:42This is what avoidants actually respond to. #feminineenergy #womensdatingadvice #datingadvice #avoidantattachment #rela5941119162

MASTERCLASS IN BIO ❤️ #womensdatingadvice #datingadvice #relationships — @anxiouslyalej

86.2K1:28MASTERCLASS IN BIO ❤️ #womensdatingadvice #datingadvice #relationships 3.6K64102910

When a man loves you, he will learn you. One of the most important dec — @anxiouslyalej

1.5M1:43When a man loves you, he will learn you. One of the most important decisions you will ever make, in your life and in you149.9K2.8K9.7K14.4K

Have you ever experienced anything like this?! She was at her friend's — @anxiouslyalej

35.7K1:35Have you ever experienced anything like this?! She was at her friend's engagement party when the newly engaged woman tol2.9K6680297

The calmest woman in the room runs the STRICTEST program. She is calm — @anxiouslyalej

86.2K1:41The calmest woman in the room runs the STRICTEST program. She is calm because she understands the power of her presence 7.3K942731.6K

1,000+ coaching calls later… here’s my best dating advice. If you want — @anxiouslyalej

20.9K1:231,000+ coaching calls later… here’s my best dating advice. If you want the full system behind how to stay on the pedesta2.3K28172580

LINK IN BIO FOR MASTERCLASS ❤️ There are two ways you can show up in a — @anxiouslyalej

9.7K1:43LINK IN BIO FOR MASTERCLASS ❤️ There are two ways you can show up in a relationship, but only one of them makes people h8681750220

What one man limits in you, he desires in someone else. And once you u — @anxiouslyalej

34K1:51What one man limits in you, he desires in someone else. And once you understand the psychology, you stop internalizing h3.2K32150801

✅LINK IN BIO for the masterclass. The reason women who do less end up — @anxiouslyalej

10.9K1:28✅LINK IN BIO for the masterclass. The reason women who do less end up with partners who are obsessed with them is that 9912757261

SHE'S STRICT 2.0 IS HERE 🩷 I didn't refresh this masterclass. I rebuil — @anxiouslyalej

4.2K2:58SHE'S STRICT 2.0 IS HERE 🩷 I didn't refresh this masterclass. I rebuilt it from the ground up. New frameworks. New lesso2395945

There is a palpable difference between the man who treats your relatio — @anxiouslyalej

79.9K2:33There is a palpable difference between the man who treats your relationship as an HONOR and the man who treats it as a F7.7K915242.1K

Engagement per clip

15 parsed clips · newest on the right · click a bar to open the clip peak: 18.9% ER

Jul 29Aug 20Sep 12

Date	Views	Likes	Comments	Shares	Saves	ER
Sep 12, 2026	4,281	381	8	15	75	9.44%
Sep 9, 2026	7,778	1,082	20	76	249	15.15%
Sep 9, 2026	32,800	5,777	100	308	818	18.86%
Sep 8, 2026	132,100	15,300	273	524	2,919	12.19%
Sep 6, 2026	6,378	594	11	19	162	9.78%
Sep 5, 2026	86,200	3,582	64	102	910	4.35%
Sep 1, 2026	1,500,000	149,900	2,812	9,678	14,386	10.83%
Aug 20, 2026	35,700	2,892	66	80	297	8.51%
Aug 14, 2026	86,200	7,347	94	273	1,575	8.95%
Aug 12, 2026	20,900	2,316	28	172	580	12.04%
Aug 11, 2026	9,688	868	17	50	220	9.65%
Aug 7, 2026	34,000	3,191	32	150	801	9.92%
Aug 5, 2026	10,900	991	27	57	261	9.86%
Aug 5, 2026	4,214	239	5	9	45	6.00%
Jul 29, 2026	79,900	7,708	91	524	2,058	10.42%