@andrewshawbscAndrew Shaw

→ Leadership → Fatherhood → Self-Mastery

card updated Oct 19, 2026 · 10 clips parsed · following 9 · 1,100,000 likes total

Engagement3.98%normal range

Account summary

@andrewshawbsc has 117,800 followers and 892 videos. Across the 10 parsed clips the average is 309 views and 11 likes. Engagement to views is 3.98%, which is normal range for TikTok. On the newer half of the feed the response is holding steady (+0.26 pp). Posts roughly 7.8 times a week.

Followers

117.8K

−200 in period

Engagement

3.98%

+0.26 pp newer half

Average views

309

median 299

Likes per clip

1 comments avg

Shares / saves

0 / 2

0.62% of viewers save

Posting rate

7.8 / wk

Latest clips

10 collected

They withdraw. You respond to the withdrawal and to your perceived mea — @andrewshawbsc

227They withdraw. You respond to the withdrawal and to your perceived meaning. “They don’t care.” That’s when you criticise8002

Acceptance doesn’t mean you approve what happened. It means ending the — @andrewshawbsc

498Acceptance doesn’t mean you approve what happened. It means ending the pain caused by the gap between reality and expect13002

Your bad habit isn’t the problem. It’s the solution to an uncomfortabl — @andrewshawbsc

319Your bad habit isn’t the problem. It’s the solution to an uncomfortable feeling. Every time you use it for relief; you m17103

We don’t feel bad about ourselves because a challenge appears.We feel — @andrewshawbsc

3490:49We don’t feel bad about ourselves because a challenge appears.We feel bad because we know how we’re likely to react. We’15204

The thing you think you need is the habit that changes how you feel. A — @andrewshawbsc

289The thing you think you need is the habit that changes how you feel. A drink. A cigarette. Food. Scrolling. Shopping. Th11112

Analysis becomes avoidance when it keeps your attention on their attac — @andrewshawbsc

288Analysis becomes avoidance when it keeps your attention on their attachment style, their trauma, or personality, and awa8001

You’re responsible for everyone else while repeatedly neglecting yours — @andrewshawbsc

3450:46You’re responsible for everyone else while repeatedly neglecting yourself. What you repeatedly model to your children sh21202

How’s dating going for you? . . . . . . . #OnlineDating #DatingLife #A — @andrewshawbsc

208How’s dating going for you? . . . . . . . #OnlineDating #DatingLife #Authenticity #ModernDating #BeYourself3100

“If they’re upset and I’m not upset, I must not care enough.” Caring a — @andrewshawbsc

309“If they’re upset and I’m not upset, I must not care enough.” Caring about someone doesn’t require you to match their em11101

Sometimes the focus stays on why they keep behaving this way, when a m — @andrewshawbsc

256Sometimes the focus stays on why they keep behaving this way, when a more useful reflection would be to look at what you7002

Engagement per clip

10 parsed clips · newest on the right · click a bar to open the clip peak: 6.7% ER

Sep 11Sep 16Sep 20

Date	Views	Likes	Comments	Shares	Saves	ER
Sep 20, 2026	227	8	0	0	2	3.52%
Sep 19, 2026	498	13	0	0	2	2.61%
Sep 18, 2026	319	17	1	0	3	5.64%
Sep 17, 2026	349	15	2	0	4	4.87%
Sep 16, 2026	289	11	1	1	2	4.50%
Sep 15, 2026	288	8	0	0	1	2.78%
Sep 14, 2026	345	21	2	0	2	6.67%
Sep 13, 2026	208	3	1	0	0	1.92%
Sep 12, 2026	309	11	1	0	1	3.88%
Sep 11, 2026	256	7	0	0	2	2.73%