@amythelifecoachAmy Fiedler

Helping people stop abandoning themselves in relationships. ▪️Boundaries + Self-Trust + Relationship skills after trauma

card updated Oct 4, 2026 · 10 clips parsed · following 1,854 · 210,500 likes total

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Engagement8.01%above average

Account summary

@amythelifecoach has 10,200 followers and 954 videos. Across the 10 parsed clips the average is 641 views and 47 likes. Engagement to views is 8.01%, which is above average for TikTok. On the newer half of the feed the response is falling (−1.26 pp). Posts roughly 1.5 times a week. An average clip reaches 6% of the follower count.

Followers

10.2K

+0 in period

Engagement

8.01%

−1.26 pp newer half

Average views

641

median 654

Likes per clip

2 comments avg

Shares / saves

2 / 17

2.7% of viewers save

Posting rate

1.5 / wk

reach 6% of followers

Latest clips

10 collected

The hardest part isn’t telling someone safe how their behavior affecte — @amythelifecoach

6142:06The hardest part isn’t telling someone safe how their behavior affected you. It’s needing to know it’ll go well before y644119

Supporting people is good! I don’t want relationships where everybody’ — @amythelifecoach

4441:21Supporting people is good! I don’t want relationships where everybody’s like, “well, your growth is your responsibility.350011

I built the Repair Framework because I needed it for myself first. I w — @amythelifecoach

4742:22I built the Repair Framework because I needed it for myself first. I wasn’t taught repair. Nobody modeled healthy confli410319

When you’re using the 3-3-3 strategy, these are the three things you’r — @amythelifecoach

5523:00When you’re using the 3-3-3 strategy, these are the three things you’re paying attention to: Are they making adjustments240011

I spent a very long time giving grace to patterns. Telling myself it w — @amythelifecoach

7602:05I spent a very long time giving grace to patterns. Telling myself it was a mistake. But they didn’t mean it. That this t31416

Someone told me my repair framework sets the bar too high… But is it r — @amythelifecoach

5801:57Someone told me my repair framework sets the bar too high… But is it really a high standard to want someone to acknowled444418

An apology can end the tension. It doesn’t, however, rebuild the trust — @amythelifecoach

8381:27An apology can end the tension. It doesn’t, however, rebuild the trust. And for a lot of us, we grew up watching people 630319

Not understanding what made you do or say what you did leaves you unaw — @amythelifecoach

7381:17Not understanding what made you do or say what you did leaves you unaware of how to make a lasting change. Now you’re ju482419

I always get asked what ‘following through on honoring your needs’ act — @amythelifecoach

7211:28I always get asked what ‘following through on honoring your needs’ actually looks like in practice. It means knowing wha701331

There’s a difference between complaining to connect and being honest a — @amythelifecoach

6931:21There’s a difference between complaining to connect and being honest and vulnerable with the people in your life. I used544220

Engagement per clip

10 parsed clips · newest on the right · click a bar to open the clip peak: 11.2% ER

Aug 7Aug 29Sep 22

Date	Views	Likes	Comments	Shares	Saves	ER
Sep 22, 2026	614	64	4	1	19	11.24%
Sep 15, 2026	444	35	0	0	11	7.88%
Sep 10, 2026	474	41	0	3	19	9.28%
Sep 1, 2026	552	24	0	0	11	4.35%
Aug 29, 2026	760	31	4	1	6	4.74%
Aug 26, 2026	580	44	4	4	18	8.97%
Aug 24, 2026	838	63	0	3	19	7.88%
Aug 14, 2026	738	48	2	4	19	7.32%
Aug 13, 2026	721	70	1	3	31	10.26%
Aug 7, 2026	693	54	4	2	20	8.66%