@alypainAlyPain - Parenting Expert

Helping parents end baffling blowups & painful disconnection w/their teens 🇨🇦

card updated Oct 12, 2026 · 23 clips parsed · following 546 · 6,700,000 likes total

Engagement10.02%above average

Account summary

@alypain has 549,200 followers and 2,159 videos. Across the 23 parsed clips the average is 177,220 views and 13,398 likes. Engagement to views is 10.02%, which is above average for TikTok. On the newer half of the feed the response is falling (−7.14 pp). Posts roughly 0.1 times a week. An average clip reaches 32% of the follower count.

Followers

549.2K

−500 in period

Engagement

10.02%

−7.14 pp newer half

Average views

177.2K

median 280

Likes per clip

13.4K

254 comments avg

Shares / saves

4.1K / 926

0.52% of viewers save

Posting rate

0.1 / wk

reach 32% of followers

Latest clips

23 collected

Setting boundaries with your teen isn’t about being harsh—it’s about t — @alypain

2410:43Setting boundaries with your teen isn’t about being harsh—it’s about teaching respect and responsibility, lessons that c4001

✋ IMMEDIATELY NO - grounding or setting consequences for your teen's l — @alypain

4070:14✋ IMMEDIATELY NO - grounding or setting consequences for your teen's lack of performance at school. That might work if y15004

Does this sound familiar with your teen? ⬇️ When you ask your teen to — @alypain

2651:00Does this sound familiar with your teen? ⬇️ When you ask your teen to do something and they either talk back or ignore y9103

ATTN: Cycle breakers - ever wonder why 'different' parenting isn't wor — @alypain

2570:56ATTN: Cycle breakers - ever wonder why 'different' parenting isn't working? Because despite your best intentions, withou7001

"I'm a such a bad parent!" As a parent, do you often find yourself in — @alypain

2570:51"I'm a such a bad parent!" As a parent, do you often find yourself in a cycle of self-blame, thinking "I should know bet2000

Being the 'chosen' parent feels great, doesn't it? It's wonderful to b — @alypain

2830:58Being the 'chosen' parent feels great, doesn't it? It's wonderful to be the one your teen confides in, shares jokes with13100

"Why does my teen hate me?!" Feeling like your teen hates you can be h — @alypain

2801:00"Why does my teen hate me?!" Feeling like your teen hates you can be heart-wrenching. Starting each day with hope, only 6000

As a parent, it's tough when your teen pushes back with disrespect. Yo — @alypain

2830:56As a parent, it's tough when your teen pushes back with disrespect. You might feel like you're walking a tightrope betwe16001

2950:58ATTN: Cycle breakers - ever wonder why 'different' parenting isn't working? Because despite your best intentions, withou8000

Struggling with those moments when you just lose it 🤯 and yell at your — @alypain

2770:47Struggling with those moments when you just lose it 🤯 and yell at your teen, only to end up feeling guilty and tearful i3000

You try encouraging your teen, reminding them of the opportunities you — @alypain

2501:12You try encouraging your teen, reminding them of the opportunities you’ve worked so hard for, and motivating them to tak4000

Ever notice your teen’s confidence nosediving around exams? 😔 It’s not — @alypain

2380:37Ever notice your teen’s confidence nosediving around exams? 😔 It’s not just the stress of school. Adolescence is already4001

Does your teen struggle to focus in school, but there’s nothing ‘obvio — @alypain

2331:10Does your teen struggle to focus in school, but there’s nothing ‘obvious’ going on? ADHD often shows up differently in g3000

❗Nagging your teen isn’t working, is it? You feel like a broken record — @alypain

2230:36❗Nagging your teen isn’t working, is it? You feel like a broken record, reminding your teen over and over—yet nothing se6102

Teach respect, not just compliance! Imagine guiding your teenager towa — @alypain

2700:47Teach respect, not just compliance! Imagine guiding your teenager towards mutual respect and understanding of authority 5002

Getting your teen to go from from a consumer to a contributor in the f — @alypain

2830:54Getting your teen to go from from a consumer to a contributor in the family is a tough journey. It's about moving from t11104

You say - “You should...” Teen hears - “You’re not smart enough to wor — @alypain

4500:29You say - “You should...” Teen hears - “You’re not smart enough to work through this on your own.” When your teen shares22102

Is your ADHD teen lazy, unmotivated, or just glued to their phone? 🤔 B — @alypain

3920:59Is your ADHD teen lazy, unmotivated, or just glued to their phone? 🤔 Before you jump to conclusions, consider this: ADHD10002

Is your teen constantly pushing boundaries, leaving you feeling frustr — @alypain

2700:55Is your teen constantly pushing boundaries, leaving you feeling frustrated and worried? 😩 When impulse control hasn’t fu4020

Ever wonder why your teen with ADHD struggles to focus, no matter how — @alypain

3050:48Ever wonder why your teen with ADHD struggles to focus, no matter how hard they try? It's not about willpower or effort—12015

Punishment escalates conflict and erodes respect. Hit the link in my p — @alypain

170.3K0:58Punishment escalates conflict and erodes respect. Hit the link in my profile for online programs with proven strategies 15.9K3661.8K1.3K

How to create an entitled teen #parentingteens #parentingteenagers #ra — @alypain

2.2M1:21How to create an entitled teen #parentingteens #parentingteenagers #raisingteens #entitled #respectfulparenting152.2K3.8K46K8K

What’s happening to my teenager??!! 😩😤 #parentingteens #raisingteens # — @alypain

1.7M2:15What’s happening to my teenager??!! 😩😤 #parentingteens #raisingteens #parentingadvice #parentingteenagers #adolescents #139.9K1.7K46.5K11.9K

Engagement per clip

23 parsed clips · newest on the right · click a bar to open the clip peak: 11.1% ER

Jul 9Sep 12Oct 10

Date	Views	Likes	Comments	Shares	Saves	ER
Oct 10, 2026	241	4	0	0	1	1.66%
Oct 9, 2026	407	15	0	0	4	3.69%
Oct 8, 2026	265	9	1	0	3	3.77%
Oct 7, 2026	257	7	0	0	1	2.72%
Oct 6, 2026	257	2	0	0	0	0.78%
Oct 5, 2026	283	13	1	0	0	4.95%
Oct 4, 2026	280	6	0	0	0	2.14%
Oct 3, 2026	283	16	0	0	1	5.65%
Oct 2, 2026	295	8	0	0	0	2.71%
Oct 1, 2026	277	3	0	0	0	1.08%
Sep 13, 2026	250	4	0	0	0	1.60%
Sep 12, 2026	238	4	0	0	1	1.68%
Sep 11, 2026	233	3	0	0	0	1.29%
Sep 10, 2026	223	6	1	0	2	3.14%
Sep 9, 2026	270	5	0	0	2	1.85%
Sep 8, 2026	283	11	1	0	4	4.24%
Sep 7, 2026	450	22	1	0	2	5.11%
Sep 6, 2026	392	10	0	0	2	2.55%
Sep 5, 2026	270	4	0	2	0	2.22%
Sep 4, 2026	305	12	0	1	5	4.26%
Feb 20, 2022	170,300	15,900	366	1,813	1,294	10.62%
Oct 29, 2021	2,200,000	152,200	3,779	46,000	8,037	9.18%
Jul 9, 2021	1,700,000	139,900	1,692	46,500	11,942	11.06%