@adhdherElla | ADHD Relationships

Helping ADHD women who crave healthy & emotionally safe love Free tools for ADHD women 👇🏻

card updated Oct 13, 2026 · 13 of 23 clips with full stats · following 19 · 824,300 likes total

Engagement9.92%above average

Account summary

@adhdher has 46,900 followers and 946 videos. Across the 23 parsed clips the average is 16,259 views and 2,009 likes. Engagement to views is 9.92%, which is above average for TikTok. On the newer half of the feed the response is falling (−7.76 pp). Posts roughly 2.3 times a week. An average clip reaches 35% of the follower count.

Followers

46.9K

+2.7K in period

Engagement

9.92%

−7.76 pp newer half

Average views

16.3K

median 6K

Likes per clip

72 comments avg

Shares / saves

391 / 757

3.04% of viewers save

Posting rate

2.3 / wk

reach 35% of followers

Latest clips

23 collected

If only it were that easy 🙃 #adhdwomen #adhdrelationships #adhdlove #a — @adhdher

1.4K1:59If only it were that easy 🙃 #adhdwomen #adhdrelationships #adhdlove #adhd #adhdprobs 480619

What would you add? #adhdwomen #adhdrelationships #adhdlove #adhd #adh — @adhdher

4.3KWhat would you add? #adhdwomen #adhdrelationships #adhdlove #adhd #adhdinwomen 616813

I'm just a girl 💁🏻‍♀️🙃😆 #adhdwomen #adhdrelationships #adhdlove #adhd — @adhdher

5KI'm just a girl 💁🏻‍♀️🙃😆 #adhdwomen #adhdrelationships #adhdlove #adhd #adhdinwomen 6311519

Behaviour OVER potential ✅️ #adhdlove #adhdrelationships #adhdwomen #a — @adhdher

15.6K0:15Behaviour OVER potential ✅️ #adhdlove #adhdrelationships #adhdwomen #adhd #adhdprobs 586102789

ADHD women... Emotional safety is something that you assess through be — @adhdher

7.7K4:03ADHD women... Emotional safety is something that you assess through behaviour, patterns, accountability and repair. Not 227731130

My free ADHD Woman's Guide to the Abuse Cycle is in my bio if you want — @adhdher

10.2KMy free ADHD Woman's Guide to the Abuse Cycle is in my bio if you want it. #adhdwomen #adhdrelationships #adhdlove #adhd281542118

Are you too much? Or is he not enough? 🤔 #adhdrelationships #adhdwomen — @adhdher

2.8K1:35Are you too much? Or is he not enough? 🤔 #adhdrelationships #adhdwomen #adhdlove #adhd #adhdprobs 1317433

What else would you add? #adhdwomen #adhdrelationships #adhdlove #adhd — @adhdher

7.6KWhat else would you add? #adhdwomen #adhdrelationships #adhdlove #adhd #adhdprobs 16693052

My guide "Is it your ADHD or is it his behaviour?" is in my bio if you — @adhdher

6.2KMy guide "Is it your ADHD or is it his behaviour?" is in my bio if you want it. #adhdwomen #adhdrelationships #adhdlove 13102061

We have learned that speaking up leads to punishment, withdrawal of lo — @adhdher

4.2K0:15We have learned that speaking up leads to punishment, withdrawal of love or abandonment. So shutdown becomes survival fo762424

You deserve to be seen, heard, understood and loved 🙌🏼 don't settle fo — @adhdher

146.2K2:32You deserve to be seen, heard, understood and loved 🙌🏼 don't settle for any less ladies 😘 #adhdwomen #adhdrelationships 13.4K4693.2K4.7K

You can't get anything past us 🤭😉 #adhdtok #adhdrelationships #adhdwom — @adhdher

76.4K2:58You can't get anything past us 🤭😉 #adhdtok #adhdrelationships #adhdwomen #adhd #adhdlove 8.9K3081.3K3.3K

Replying to @samlikejam74 knowledge is power 🙌🏼 and as ADHD women, we — @adhdher

36.3K7:12Replying to @samlikejam74 knowledge is power 🙌🏼 and as ADHD women, we have incredible pattern recognition skills, so the2K1123771.3K

#adhdwomen #adhdrelationships #adhdlove #adhd #adhdprobs — @adhdher

6.7K#adhdwomen #adhdrelationships #adhdlove #adhd #adhdprobs 0000

Being chosen is NOT the same as being truly loved 😞 #adhdwomen #adhdre — @adhdher

7.3KBeing chosen is NOT the same as being truly loved 😞 #adhdwomen #adhdrelationships #adhdlove #adhd #adhdprobs 0000

My free SAFE LOVE™ self-assessment is in my bio if you want it. #adhdw — @adhdher

6KMy free SAFE LOVE™ self-assessment is in my bio if you want it. #adhdwomen #adhdrelationships #adhdlove #adhd #adhdprobs0000

You were never the problem 😘 My free SAFE LOVE™ self-assessment is in — @adhdher

2.2KYou were never the problem 😘 My free SAFE LOVE™ self-assessment is in my bio if you want it. #adhdwomen #adhdrelationshi0000

An ADHD woman can become so focused on finding the PERFECT way to expl — @adhdher

2.9KAn ADHD woman can become so focused on finding the PERFECT way to explain her feelings that she forgets to question why 0000

Looking back at the woman I was in my teens, 20s and early 30s, before — @adhdher

11.7KLooking back at the woman I was in my teens, 20s and early 30s, before I knew I had ADHD, genuinely makes me sad sometim0000

How much of your personality is genuinely YOU, and how much developed — @adhdher

2.5KHow much of your personality is genuinely YOU, and how much developed because you were trying to feel accepted? Since my0000

Sometimes personal growth changes the dynamics of a relationship. Espe — @adhdher

4.2KSometimes personal growth changes the dynamics of a relationship. Especially when you've spent years being the woman who0000

I didn't become less loving. I became less willing to abandon myself. — @adhdher

2.1KI didn't become less loving. I became less willing to abandon myself. I spent so much of my life believing I was just a 0000

An ADHD woman's relationship battery drains faster than most, and it's — @adhdher

4.5KAn ADHD woman's relationship battery drains faster than most, and it's not because she's too much! What drains yours the0000

Engagement per clip

13 parsed clips · newest on the right · click a bar to open the clip peak: 13.8% ER

Sep 2Oct 11Oct 12

Date	Views	Likes	Comments	Shares	Saves	ER
Oct 12, 2026	1,367	48	0	6	19	3.95%
Oct 12, 2026	4,301	61	6	8	13	1.74%
Oct 12, 2026	4,990	63	1	15	19	1.58%
Oct 12, 2026	15,600	586	10	27	89	3.99%
Oct 12, 2026	7,707	227	7	31	130	3.44%
Oct 11, 2026	10,200	281	5	42	118	3.22%
Oct 11, 2026	2,827	131	7	4	33	5.02%
Oct 11, 2026	7,589	166	9	30	52	2.70%
Oct 11, 2026	6,211	131	0	20	61	2.43%
Oct 11, 2026	4,217	76	2	4	24	1.94%
Sep 7, 2026	146,200	13,400	469	3,210	4,738	11.68%
Sep 2, 2026	76,400	8,917	308	1,306	3,264	13.78%
Sep 2, 2026	36,300	2,024	112	377	1,284	6.92%