@_olivialesurfwrayRelationship coach & therapist

𝑹𝒆𝒍𝒂𝒕𝒊𝒐𝒏𝒔𝒉𝒊𝒑 𝑪𝒐𝒂𝒄𝒉 + 𝑪𝑹𝑻 𝑻𝒉𝒆𝒓𝒂𝒑𝒊𝒔𝒕 𝑯𝒆𝒍𝒑𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒚𝒐𝒖𝒓 𝒎𝒊𝒏𝒅 𝒎𝒂𝒌𝒆 𝒔𝒆𝒏𝒔𝒆 𝒐𝒇 𝒚𝒐𝒖𝒓 𝒉𝒆𝒂𝒓𝒕 🌿𝟏:𝟏↓

card updated Oct 24, 2026 · 13 clips parsed · following 1 · 625,200 likes total

Engagement3.64%normal range

Account summary

@_olivialesurfwray has 36,100 followers and 331 videos. Across the 13 parsed clips the average is 18,454 views and 617 likes. Engagement to views is 3.64%, which is normal range for TikTok. On the newer half of the feed the response is falling (−0.79 pp). Posts roughly 0.2 times a week. An average clip reaches 51% of the follower count.

Followers

36.1K

+200 in period

Engagement

3.64%

−0.79 pp newer half

Average views

18.5K

median 9.8K

Likes per clip

617

25 comments avg

Shares / saves

30 / 184

1.0% of viewers save

Posting rate

0.2 / wk

reach 51% of followers

Latest clips

13 collected

From denial and obsessive thinking to emotional withdrawal and finally — @_olivialesurfwray

4.4K3:38From denial and obsessive thinking to emotional withdrawal and finally acceptance, there’s a psychological reason why mo11111644

“I just need some space” 💔 And suddenly you’re in breakup limbo. Not t — @_olivialesurfwray

2.9K3:05“I just need some space” 💔 And suddenly you’re in breakup limbo. Not together, but not quite letting go either. You’re w284420

One of the most confusing parts of a breakup is watching someone who o — @_olivialesurfwray

13.1K3:14One of the most confusing parts of a breakup is watching someone who once loved you suddenly act like they feel absolute3671416116

When your ex goes straight into another relationship, your brain start — @_olivialesurfwray

11K2:52When your ex goes straight into another relationship, your brain starts comparing EVERYTHING. But it might not actually 345191188

They leave, you break. You heal, they come back. You let them in… and — @_olivialesurfwray

8.9K3:29They leave, you break. You heal, they come back. You let them in… and then they leave again. Each time this happens, it 183181284

“I need to work on myself.” Then three weeks later, they’re dating som — @_olivialesurfwray

9.8K3:01“I need to work on myself.” Then three weeks later, they’re dating someone new. So… were they lying to you? Not necessa344136126

One of the hardest breakups to process is when the love was real… but — @_olivialesurfwray

32.5K3:05One of the hardest breakups to process is when the love was real… but they still chose to leave. Because if they loved y9373436294

They watch every story. They check what you’re doing. They might even — @_olivialesurfwray

30K2:31They watch every story. They check what you’re doing. They might even be one of the first people to view your posts… but51438125165

You broke up… but what’s actually happening inside their body and brai — @_olivialesurfwray

45.3K3:54You broke up… but what’s actually happening inside their body and brain afterwards? 🧠💔 A breakup isn’t just emotional i1.9K6965636

Your ex has already made their decision. Pushing harder won’t make the — @_olivialesurfwray

71.6K2:35Your ex has already made their decision. Pushing harder won’t make them reconsider, it can make them feel even more cert3.2K92107808

Kind words🫶🏼 Sometimes the most meaningful words come in the little mo — @_olivialesurfwray

3.7KKind words🫶🏼 Sometimes the most meaningful words come in the little moments, a message, a reflection shared in real time25210

Not all heartbreak looks the same and neither does healing 🤍 Whether y — @_olivialesurfwray

3KNot all heartbreak looks the same and neither does healing 🤍 Whether you’re deep in the ache, rebuilding your sense of s24044

From Heartbreak to Healing to Home 🌿 This is the story I’ve never full — @_olivialesurfwray

3.7KFrom Heartbreak to Healing to Home 🌿 This is the story I’ve never fully shared, until now. From a childhood full of love78826

Engagement per clip

13 parsed clips · newest on the right · click a bar to open the clip peak: 4.7% ER

Jul 20Aug 28Oct 18

Date	Views	Likes	Comments	Shares	Saves	ER
Oct 18, 2026	4,382	111	11	6	44	2.92%
Oct 14, 2026	2,916	28	4	4	20	1.23%
Sep 23, 2026	13,100	367	14	16	116	3.03%
Sep 14, 2026	11,000	345	19	11	88	3.41%
Sep 13, 2026	8,867	183	18	12	84	2.40%
Sep 10, 2026	9,840	344	13	6	126	3.69%
Aug 28, 2026	32,500	937	34	36	294	3.10%
Aug 26, 2026	30,000	514	38	125	165	2.26%
Aug 25, 2026	45,300	1,905	69	65	636	4.50%
Aug 21, 2026	71,600	3,166	92	107	808	4.70%
Aug 26, 2025	3,679	25	2	1	0	0.76%
Aug 5, 2025	3,004	24	0	4	4	0.93%
Jul 20, 2025	3,717	78	8	2	6	2.37%